Lay down and let me make both of us happy

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Retail car salespeople call them “laydowns” because they come into the showroom ready to buy. They don’t ask a lot of questions. They don’t haggle on price. They say yes to many of the “ups and extras”.

They show up, lay down, and make car dealers very happy. They’re happy, too because they get what they want and don’t have to fight to get it.

Lawyers love laydowns too. Clients who don’t shop around, “interview” you, or try to negotiate fees.

Admit it, that’s the kind of clients you want.

If you’re smart, most of your clients can be that way.

Interested?

The first thing you should do is to provide lots of information about you and your services so that prospective clients can do their homework before they contact you. On your website, in your presentations, in your handouts, explain what you do and why someone should hire you.

In addition, explain your terms. Spell out what you expect of your clients and what they can expect of you.

If clients see that you work on retainer only, for example, they’ll be much less likely to expect you to do the work before they have to pay.

Let this information weed out the hagglers, price shoppers, and trouble makers.

The second thing you should do is help prospective clients get to know, like, and trust you, again, before they talk to you. Invite them to sign up for your newsletter, for example, where you can build a relationship with them. When they’re ready to move forward, they’ll already know most of what they need to know and be all but ready to sign up.

The third thing you should do is to make referrals the foundation of your practice. Referred clients come to you pre-sold by the referral-giver, whether that’s one of your clients or another professional. Referred clients ask fewer questions and are less price sensitive. As a bonus, they are themselves more likely to refer.

If you do these three things, you’ll not only get more clients, most of those clients will be easier to sign up, easier to work with, and much more profitable.

There’s nothing better than referrals

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Silence is golden, especially during election season

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If I’ve blocked or unfollowed you on social media lately, as I have done with hundreds of people, it’s probably because you talked about who you planned to vote for or which issue you supported. You probably did it a lot.

Why did you do that? You could have kept mum and we’d still be friends.

How many clients have you turned off by sharing your views? How many prospects won’t hire you now because you couldn’t resist flapping your gums? How many professional contacts will no longer send you referrals?

And for what? What did you gain by talking politics?

I know this election is important. But so is paying your rent and feeding your kids.

Let the talking heads talk about politics. That’s their job. Your job is to get and keep clients.

Keep your head down and do your work. Keep your mouth shut and stop chasing away business.

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If you know what to do to reach your goal, it’s not a big enough goal

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A friend of mine, a successful lawyer, business owner, and speaker, frequently tells his audiences, “You’re not thinking big enough”. He says most people set goals that are too small and quit when they hit the first obstacle.

Small goals may be achievable but they’re not exciting. They don’t motivate us to overcome our fears or to keep going in the face of defeat. Only big, seemingly unachievable goals have that power.

Bob Proctor says, “If you know what to do to reach your goal, it’s not a big enough goal”. He says,

“Set a goal to achieve something that is so big, so exhilarating that it excites you and scares you at the same time. It must be a goal that is so appealing, so much in line with your spiritual core that you can’t get it out of your mind. If you do not get chills when you set a goal, you’re not setting big enough goals.”

Grant Cardone, author of “The 10x Rule,” makes the same assertion. He says that the biggest mistake people make in life is not setting big enough goals. We should set goals that are 10X greater than what we believe we can achieve, he says.

I know what you’re thinking. You’re thinking that this is a dream, not a goal. A goal is something we have some basis for believing we can achieve.

Dream? Goal? I’m not sure it matters what you call it. All I know is that if we’re not excited about it, we’re not going to give it much energy. And we need a lot of energy to achieve anything great. Cardone says that we should take action that is 10X greater than what we believe is necessary to achieve our goal.

I don’t know about you but if I’m going to work that hard, it better be worth it.

A marketing plan gives you a place to start. Here’s the one I recommend

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A hundred opportunities a day to grow your practice

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I’m not the only one to point out that everything you do in your practice is marketing.

From the way you answer the phone to the invoices you send your clients. From the way you speak to prospects about how you can help them to the sincerity of your “thank you” notes. Even the way you conduct yourself with opposing counsel who might someday speak kindly about you or send you a referral.

It’s all marketing.

And because it’s all marketing, your day is filled with opportunities to build and develop your relationships and your reputation and grow your practice.

Every time you speak to someone or write something someone else will read, you have an opportunity to help people get to know, like, and trust you. Be aware of these opportunities and don’t squander them. Consistently give people a little more value or a little more insight into how you are different or better.

In the beginning, you may need to make a conscious effort to do this. You may have to ask yourself what you can do to go beyond the core elements of your job. You may have to remind yourself to take a few extra seconds to ask about a client’s children or to re-read your email before you send it to find a way to make it more personal.

Eventually, you will do these things automatically. They will be baked into your persona and your methods of operation. And eventually, you’ll begin to notice that good things are happening in your practice.

Most of your marketing can be done this way. The little things you do, in the moment, if done consistently and with sincerity and heart, will attract more clients, more referral sources, and more opportunities to get the word out about what you do.

This is how marketing used to be done. This is how most of your marketing can be done still.

Learn more ways to grow your practice here

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You messed up? Congratulations!

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We may not like it but it’s true. We learn more from our mistakes than from our successes. I’m sure you can think of lost cases, unhappy clients, and failed projects you’d like to forget, but forget them at your peril.

I don’t dwell on them, but I still remember some of my mistakes. Like the client I was prepping for a statement. He didn’t speak English so I had my secretary translate. I told him not to say something during the statement because it could be interpreted as an admission of fault.

Sure enough, he said the very thing I told him not to say.

I couldn’t believe it. I shook my head and muttered the word “stupid”. Unfortunately, after the statement, I learned that the client spoke some English and understood what I said.

Yeah, he wasn’t too happy with me. But I learned a valuable lesson that day. Some clients really are stupid.

Anyway, learn from your mistakes. And learn from the mistakes of others.

Jim Rohn said, “It’s too bad failures don’t give seminars. Wouldn’t that be valuable? If you meet a guy who has messed up his life for forty years, you’ve just got to say, “John, if I bring my journal and promise to take good notes, would you spend a day with me?”

Until that happens, you can learn from the mistakes of others through observation, and by reading biographies and watching documentaries.

Or, you could come hang out with me.

Despite some mistakes, I built my practice through referrals

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Nothing compares to you

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Have you ever shared a waiting room with another lawyer who always seems to have new clients waiting for them? Do other lawyers in town get the big cases or clients that you’d like to get? Have you ever wondered why some lawyers always seem to be in the news?

They may have more energy than you or work at a faster pace. They may be willing to take more risks. They may have more time or more money or better connections. You may not be able to compete with these things.

So don’t.

Instead, use your unique self to market yourself.

Because nothing compares to you.

Put as much of yourself into your practice because you are unique. Nobody can compete with you because nobody is you.

I see many attorneys hiding their personality and style and sense of humor. They promote their services and tout their skills and experience when they should be promoting themselves.

Yes, clients want solutions to their problems. Your skills and experience are by no means unimportant. It’s just that what attracts clients in the first place, and what keeps them coming back and referring others, has little to do with your technical ability and everything to do with being liked and trusted.

Many of the attorneys you see with overflowing waiting rooms have figured this out. They aren’t necessarily better lawyers. They’re simply better at selling themselves.

Effective marketing starts with this

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How to win friends and influence clients

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You may be a good writer, a good speaker, and a good advocate, but an even more valuable skill is to be good with people.

In a one-on-one setting, when you meet someone new, when a prospect calls, or when sitting with a new client, being able to make people feel good about themselves and about you is one of the most valuable skills there is.

How do you acquire that skill, or improve on it if you’re already good with people? You can read books (like, “How to Win Friends and Influence People”). You can hire a coach. And you can make a conscious effort to observe your interactions with others and work on improving them. But one of the best ways to become a more charming and likable person is to watch how other people do it.

Find people who are good with people and spend time with them. Observe them. Listen to them. Watch their body language, absorb their language, and soak up their energy. Note what they do to put a smile on other people’s faces. And then model their behavior.

Use what you’ve learned from people who have the “people gene”.

I can attest to the value of doing this because I have surrounded myself with people who are good with people and it has allowed me to change my wicked ways. People used to tell me I was “intimidating” and “hard to know”. Now they say I’m “approachable,” “friendly,” and “nice”.

Nice? Me? That’s embarrassing. How about if we just say that I’m not as mean as I use to be?

Earn more, work less. Here’s the plan

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The client from heck

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We’ve all had them. Clients who blame you for things that aren’t your fault. They make a fuss over silly stuff and ignore all the good you do for them. They’re usually not bad enough to tell them to take a walk, they’re just incredibly annoying.

I was thinking about this while browsing through the app store this morning. I was looking at the reviews for an app I had purchased and love, smiling at all the five-star reviews, reading comments from users pointing out their favorite features and use cases. “This has changed my life,” “Worth every penny,” “Best app on my phone.”

A bit of mindless distraction while I waited for the coffee to kick in.

And then I saw a two-star review. The reviewer complained about a feature that didn’t work for him. He said the app was, “not ready for prime time”.

Tens of thousands of people have no problem with that feature. Hundreds of five-star reviews. But no, he’s right and everyone else is wrong.

Did he stop to think that maybe he was doing something wrong? Did he contact support and ask for help?

Nah, Mr. “I’m right” didn’t do that. He just posted his “review”.

What’s up with people? Why do they never consider that THEY are the problem?

I don’t know. I just know that people like this exist and they buy apps and hire lawyers.

What do you do about clients who are like this? Usually, you grin and bear it. Business is business and paying clients get the benefit of the doubt, even when they’re clearly a doofus. If they get bad enough, you ask them to find another lawyer; otherwise, you deal with it.

Or you do like I often did: turn them over to an employee who is “nicer” than you and let them deal with them.

It’s good to be King.

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Put your passion on your todo list

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When you wake up in the morning and think about your work and your life, what do you look forward to? What puts a smile on your face? What excites you?

Whatever it is, that’s what you should focus on. If you can do it, do it. Otherwise, think about it during the day. Make plans for it. Study it. Talk about it. Because whatever it is that excites you is at the heart of your creativity and growth.

Earl Nightingale said, “The key that unlocks energy is desire. It’s also the key to a long and interesting life. If we expect to create any drive, any real force within ourselves, we have to get excited.”

Most people spend most of their day dealing with the mundane, fixing problems, and taking care of responsibilities. They make a life for themselves but neglect the things that make life worth living.

Some say we can’t build a life around our passions, that the realities of the world make that impossible for all but a privileged few. I say that while we might not be able to have the life of our dreams today, we can start working on it today, and thus unlock the energy that fuels our journey.

And that’s what life is, really. A journey. We may never reach the destination, but if we have something we’re excited about to keep us company, we can have one helluva ride.

Get more referrals and increase your income: here’s how

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Marketing to people who don’t like lawyers

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They’re out there. People who will tell anyone who will listen how much they don’t like lawyers. They go to great lengths to describe their bad experiences, how they were cheated or lied to or how their lawyer was incompetent or in the pocket of the other side.

True or not, they are angry and passionate about their dislike and distrust for members of our species.

There are others who aren’t necessarily angry but who have been conditioned to be anti-lawyer by a friend’s experience or by what they see on TV or movies. They think lawyers are arrogant or mean or uncaring.

And then there are those who simply think lawyers charge too much. They may be jealous of our income or lifestyle, real or imagined, or jealous of the fact that we don’t seem to work hard compared to whatever they do.

I’m sure you can think of other reasons why people hate lawyers or don’t trust lawyers or are quick to tell the latest lawyer joke making the rounds.

The question is, how do you market to these folks.

A few thoughts.

First, prepare for it, especially if you target consumers and small businesses. “I don’t like lawyers” is an objection, and like any objection, it is best handled before you ever talk to the client. Put something on your website that deals with the issue up front.

Talk about how some lawyers give others a bad name but that most are honest and hard working and want the best for their clients. Talk about why lawyers charge what might seem to be exorbitant fees, and say something about the costs of running a practice.

Talk about some of the issues clients sometimes have with their lawyer, such as the failure to keep them informed. Explain what a lawyer should do and what the client can do if their lawyer doesn’t do it. Explain the recourse that is available, i.e., how to file a complaint with your bar association.

Use this as an opportunity to explain your policies, procedures, and safeguards on those issues. Tell them what you do to keep your clients informed, for example. Explain when and how you seek permission before you do certain things. Tell them how you handle delays and contingencies.

In other words, don’t run from the issue, turn it into a selling point.

Second, make sure clients and prospects know that your door is open. If they have questions or something bothers them, encourage them to contact you and tell you about it. You want to know because it helps you do a better job for your clients. Make it easy for them to fill out a form to communicate with you.

Third, if allowed, make sure your website provides testimonials from clients who talk about the great job you did for them, how you were patient with their questions, how you always got back to them, and other “trust factors”.

If testimonials aren’t allowed, provide “success stories” wherein you describe cases and matters you have handled that a good outcome. Talk about how you copied the clients on everything, and other things you did to keep them informed and happy. If possible, include stories about clients who came to you after they had a bad experience with another lawyer and what you did to fix things.

Fourth, make sure your website has lots of substantive content. Explain the law and procedure and process for handling cases, negotiating and drafting documents, and the like. Illustrate your points with cases and matters you’ve had as examples. Let prospective clients thus see you “in action,” helping clients, solving problems, saving the world.

Of course much of the above applies to prospective clients who don’t have any trust issues with lawyers but might have unanswered questions about what you do and how you do it.

Most people who say they don’t like lawyers still hire lawyers. When they have a problem or need something a lawyer can provide, they will hit up a search engine or ask someone for a referral. When they do, the above steps will make it more likely that you’ll be the one they choose.

More about how to build trust: The Attorney Marketing Formula

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