The top people in any industry, whether sports or business or the arts, have coaches. Attorneys should, too.

A coach can provide training and mentoring and yes, some hand holding, but perhaps the most valuable service they offer their clients is providing a mechanism for accountability.

My coach taught me that accountability is one of the most powerful forces in motivating human behavior. I know when I have to report my progress to him at the end of the week, I get the work done. Without that accountability, it's too easy to delay and defer. I don't know why I listen to my excuses, but I do. I'll bet you do, too.

If you want to get more done, especially in the area of marketing your legal services, you should consider hiring a coach. Actually, you should hire me.

As an attorney, I built a successful practice by implementing marketing strategies and techniques that I learned through a lot of trial and error and a lot of study. As a marketing consultant, I've helped hundreds of attorneys with different backgrounds and practice areas in all phases of marketing and business development.

When we work together, you'll be able to:

• Get more repeat business and referrals
• Determine the best markets for you to target
• Get better clients and bigger engagements
• Develop a web site or blog that builds your brand and brings in new business
• Create compelling content for your web site or newsletter or for a speech or seminar
• Build targeted lists of prospective clients and referral sources
• Use social media to drive traffic to your web site
• Create marketing documents that make your phone ring
• Increase your gross income and your net income
• Earn more while working fewer hours
• Create a marketing plan that works for you, your practice, and your market

If you are on my newsletter list, you will be notified when the next group coaching program is open.

If you're interested in one-on-one coaching, please call me at (949) 888-2800 or use this contact form.

I can also provide referrals to experts in other fields. Please contact me if you're interested in any of the following:

• Copy writing (web, brochures, sales letters, landing pages, radio/TV)
• Media buying
• Email campaigns
• Print ads
• Web site (and blog) development
• SEO
• PPC
• Videos (scripting, shooting, editing, publishing)
• Social media campaigns
• List rental
• Web site metrics

If you want to be at the top of your profession, surround yourself with experts who can help you achieve more than you can achieve on your own. Hire someone to help you determine your most important goals, equip you with the tools and resources for achieving those goals, and hold you accountable to the monthly plans and daily activities that will help you accomplish them.

"Most people fail to achieve the goals they set," my mentor and personal coach David Byrd told a group of 2000 entrepreneurs over the weekend. You probably already knew that. But do you know why?

The first part of the answer is that they don't know how to set goals in the first place.

Should you choose goals that are so easy you know you will accomplish them? Well, if you do that, you'll feel good about accomplishing a lot of goals but you won't see much growth. So how about choosing huge, lofty goals you will probably never accomplish? Is that the answer?

I used to think so. For years, I set goals I never came close to achieving. Year after year I would set the same goals and year after year, fail to accomplish them. It was discouraging and eventually, I lost interest in goal setting.

Now, things are different. I know how to set goals that are both inspiring and achievable and I am achieving them. But not just because I know how to set them properly. You also need a system for goal achievement.

On Wednesday, January 19, I'm hosting a webinar featuring David Byrd who will teach you how to set goals and achieve goals. You'll learn a system he has used for more than thirty years working with professionals, executives, and business owners, as an executive leadership coach.

The webinar is 100% free and I promise you will learn a lot that you can use to achieve more in 2011.

Click here for details and to register.

So it's a new year and you're ready to get back to work. If you're like most attorneys, you're excited about all of the plans you've made for the future but feeling overwhelmed with everything you have to do. You've got "too many".

• Too many articles and blog posts to read (not to mention the books piled up on your shelf (or floor) and in your Kindle or iPad
• Too many people to call, letters to write, lunches to attend
• Too many projects you've been putting off but promised yourself (spouse, partner) you will (finally) do
• Too many continuing education seminars you don't have time for but must do because your compliance group is "due" (guilty)
• Too many commitments you've made that you know you can't possibly keep

And let's not forget your legal work. You know, the stuff that actually gets you paid.

In a previous post, I wrote about how I dramatically cut my work hours (and stress) by delegating. If you've ever emptied a closet or a desk drawer, all that empty space feels good but you know it won't last. It's only a matter of time before that closet or drawer is once again filled to overflowing. Once you get good at delegating as much as possible and have more time available, it's the same thing: you find more and more things to fill your time and before you know it, once again, you're overwhelmed.

I've still got "too many". I have a backlog of hundreds of articles I need to read and I've bookmarked so many web sites to visit my head is spinning. I glance at the updates in my Twitter stream and wonder how I could possibly read even a fraction of the tweets that go past me, let alone follow up on the relevant ones, let alone connect with the people who sent them.

I think it's safe to say we all have "too many". So how do we avoid being overwhelmed?

First, take a deep breath. Exhale. Once more. Now, repeat after me, "I can't do it all, I will never get everything done, and that's okay."

None of us will ever get it all done. We'll never read all those articles or complete all those projects. There's too much and there will always be more and the first thing we need to do is acknowledge that we'll never get it all done AND THAT'S OKAY.

So relax.

The key to success and a well-lived life  isn't doing everything, it's doing the most important things. It is the 80/20 principle: a few things matter, most everything else doesn't; the ones that matter are the ones that produce most of your results. Focus on doing a few important things, and don't worry about the rest.

Success comes from achievement, not from being busy.

About a year ago, I started working with David Byrd, an executive coach, who helped me get clear about what I wanted to accomplish. He taught me the value of being driven by vision–my vision of the future I want to create–instead of being driven by circumstances. The idea is to start with the end in mind and then set goals that are consistent with that vision. In doing so, we cut through the clutter of "too many" possibilities and focus on the most important ones. The system gives me a place to come back to whenever I find myself wandering. WhenI feel overwhelmed or losing clarity about what to do next, I revisit my vision and my goals and I'm back on track.

David Byrd also taught me a system for achieving my goals. I plan each month so that my activities (projects, actions, etc.) move me forward towards my goals. I also plan each day. As a result, I always know what I need to do.

In short, the system helps me put one foot in front of the other and continually move forward towards my destination. I don't get distracted by all of the side roads or billboards.

So, as we begin a new year, have you chosen your most important goals? Have you put them on paper? And do you have a plan for achieving them?

If you are driven by vision, have goals that support that vision and a plan for achieving them, you'll have clarity about what to do and what you can let go of. You'll be empowered, not overwhelmed. And you'll be excited because you know where you're going and you have a map that will get you there.

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On January 19, Mr. Byrd will be conducting a free goal-setting webinar for my subscribers. Please join us. Register here for this free webinar and make 2011 your best year ever.

This clip, from the movie, "Facing The Giants," is a poignant reminder that we can do more than we think we can. It also shows you why you should never give up.

If you need a bit of inspiration, or a kick in the seat, watch this clip and ask yourself, "What could I do if I didn't know I couldn't?"

And go for it.

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I just finished reading, "Double Your Income Doing What You Love," by Raymond Aaron, which describes a unique method of setting and achieving goals. One of the perennial issues in goal setting is whether we should set big goals, which inspire us to reach high but usually leave us disappointed, or small goals, which we almost always achieve, but don't take us very far. Aaron presents a system that provides the perfect answer, one I have never seen before.

"Instead of recording a goal, you subdivide your goal into three levels of achievement," he says. The first level is what we are almost certain to do, not based on our hopes but on our actual track record. "It is not much more than a to-do item," he says. But just because you are almost certain to do it doesn't mean you will and so it is still a goal. This first level can be called the "minimum."

The next level is your "target". This is a stretch beyond what you are confident you can do.

The highest level he calls "outrageous" and it is the most challenging of the three, practically impossible to achieve.

By setting three levels of the same goal, you will always achieve that goal. You are guaranteed to succeed at some level, and thus your self-esteem is enhanced (the rationale behind setting easy goals) while you are simultaneously inspired by your bigger target and outrageous goals. You'll hit your target goals often enough, and sometimes hit (or make significant progress towards) your outrageous goals. The bottom line of this system is that you hit more goals more often.

Aaron also suggests using monthly goals as your primary time line, long enough to accomplish something meaningful but short enough to be held accountable. Monthly goals are tactical, the mechanics of reaching our long term (annual) strategic goals.

He also tells us that while we are responsible for our lives and, therefore, the accomplishment of our goals, this doesn't mean we are the ones who have to do everything (or anything) towards their achievement. Aaron is a proponent of delegation, urging us to do only what we love. "When you set a goal, you likely wonder when you are ever going to find time to complete it. When I set a goal, I wonder who is going to do it. If it's not one of my special talents, I delegate it so that it gets done."

Over the last twenty-four years, Aaron has mentored thousands to success with his goal setting methods, and, not surprisingly, suggests everyone will benefit from "a mentored life." "You do what makes sense to you. Therefore, on your own, you keep doing the same thing all the time, because it makes sense to you. To have a giant leap forward in your life, you need to do what does not make sense to you. Only a very wise mentor can alert you to such new and strange actions you could take to make a huge change in your life."

I recommend Aaron's book. In fact, I guarantee you'll get something out of it.

One of the best ways to get from where you are to where you want to go is getting help from someone who has done what you want to do. Make a list of areas you would like help with or areas where you would like to grow. Three key areas for lawyers in private practice would be

• Substantive practice areas
• Marketing
• Administration/management

Specific areas you might want to key on might be

• Technology/internet
• Employee relations
• Taxes/record keeping
• Risk management/insurance
• Retirement planning/investments

And so on.

Here's an approach you can take:

"Hello, Mr. Jones, my name is Robert Lawyer. We haven't met and I know you're a busy man, so I'll be brief. I'm a sole practictioner in the area of estate planning. I know you've built a very successful estate practice over the last twenty-five years. I've been practicing for four years now and I'm ready to take things to a higher level and I would appreciate it if you would consider being my mentor. All that would mean is spending ten minutes with me on the phone once a month, so I could ask you a few questions. I'd really appreciate it. Would you be open to that?"

Be prepared to give your mentors something in return. At the very least, give them feedback on how their advice has worked out for you. Look for information and resources that can benefit them and share it with them.

Eventually, find others whom you can mentor. There's no better way to pay tribute to your mentors than to follow in their footsteps.